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‘You would see me just curled up on my bed in a foetal position, not wanting to go anywhere or do anything.’
When life hits you hard sometimes the only thing to do is to fall to pieces. We may try to hide the anger, frustration, and grief behind it all, but what if there’s a better way? Listen as Verena opens up about her journey through grief, and how learning to lament transformed her perspective and led her toward hope.
Key takeaways from this episode
God meets us in our most vulnerable moments – Lament is about bringing our raw grief, anger, or confusion to God exactly as we are, right in the middle of the mess.
Lament is honest, not polite – It’s a no‑holds‑barred outpouring directed to God, where we stop filtering and tell Him the truth He already knows.
God wants our emotions, even the ugly ones – Anger toward God is okay; He has ‘big shoulders’ and invites us to express what’s really inside.
God is present in the rubble, not distant – He doesn’t watch suffering from afar; He sits with us in the ruins of our lives.
Lament creates space for healing – Releasing what’s pent up, even repeatedly about the same issue, allows God to begin restoring hope and faith.
Scripture gives language when we have none – Psalms and Lamentations show faithful believers ‘giving it to God,’ providing words when we can’t find our own.
Lament leads to rediscovering identity – When everything else falls away, God reminds us: ‘You are my beloved child, and I will never leave you.’
Hope is reborn over time, not instantly – Lament isn’t a quick fix; it’s a slow, honest process where faith gradually regrows through connection with God.
God speaks in many ways when we pay attention – Through Scripture, nature, people, or moments of quiet—He uses anything to reach us when we’re listening.
You don’t have to carry suffering alone – Verena urges anyone in pain to stop trying to cope by themselves and to bring everything to God, who is ready and willing to hold it.
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Related booklet
If you’ve ever wondered where God is when you’re suffering, or you know someone who is feeling deserted by God, ‘Why Do Bad Things Happen?’ can provide valuable insight. It will show you how God wants to comfort you in all situations.
