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We were lying in bed one day and I’m just leaning on my elbows like this and she’s there looking up at me and talking and she just said – Who are you? It ripped me apart.’
It’s hard to imagine what it would feel like when the person you’ve loved for over 50 years doesn’t know who you are. Hear John’s inspiring story of loyalty and love, in the face of Dementia.
Key takeaways from this episode
- Early Love & Marriage
John met Maureen as a teenager, they married at 21, and spent 51 years building a family, businesses, and a life together. - Dementia Diagnosis & Impact
Maureen was diagnosed in 2012, and her decline in everyday skills deeply shook John, especially when she no longer recognised him. - Transition to Care
After being assessed as “high care,” Maureen moved into full-time care, which was heartbreaking for John but eased by supportive staff. - Daily Visits & Relationship Now
John visits her almost every day, spending time helping with her care and cherishing simple moments of connection. - Struggles & Faithfulness
He admits the pain is overwhelming but remains committed to his marriage vows, refusing to “move on” from his wife. - Strength & Faith
John draws on his Christian faith for endurance, finding meaning in God’s bigger plan and hope in eternal life. - Community Involvement
He volunteers in his community, delivering food and connecting with people, which gives him a sense of purpose. - Maureen’s Current State
Now bedbound with Parkinson’s complications, Maureen rarely speaks, but small smiles or words bring John comfort. - Hope for the Future
John holds onto the belief that heaven will reunite them fully, with Maureen restored and able to know him again.
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